I have been in the unfortunate place to see this happen to many times to people that really don’t deserve this conclusion. Yes, this is the feeling if not the words people speak after they see their home sold at a Trustee Sale.
The sorrowful thing is that in most cases this situation can be avoided. Often people become embarrassed that they cannot make the mortgage payment on their home Then too often they go into denial of the problem and do not take advantage of the solutions that are available. Alternatively, almost as bad they wait until the last moments to act and “Stop Foreclosure”.
I am a person that has been in Real Estate for years, mostly as an investor or a financial advisor and like most Americans, I have experienced major loses in my investments. Today, I focus on helping people with distressed property through short sales and or loan modifications. I enjoy the job, as it has enabled me to help many people in severe situations move to a much less stressful and manageable life.
I find that the common thing that most of my clients feel is that they do not want to be truant from their commitments, and yet they feel they can no longer live off their credit cards to make ends meet. If this is your circumstance, you have a lot of company as practically half of the Real Estate on the market today is either A Short Sale or Bank Owned from foreclosure.
If you are someone that may possibly face foreclosure, take advantage of people like me that are trained in mortgage modification and short sales. Do it early as the process takes time, and avoid the disruptive experience of the sheriff coming and putting you and your family out on the street.